As I was going thru all of Pam's papers I ran across these again. I thought that they maybe helpful to some. I don't have dates for these letters but I believe they were probably from earlier on. Pam was smart she was educated. She says she's independent. She tells him she won't be controlled. Little by little she lost those.  The home phone goes. The internet is password protected and Pam was only allowed access when Kevin was there. Then Kevin would just take Pam's phone and car keys. 

She was a prisoner in her own home.  

 

 

 

 

 

Here are a few from Kevin.

 

Pam also had found this paper. It looks like Kevin may have been a sex addict to. Who keeps a journal like this? I can only imagine how Pam felt when she found this. Kevin's autopsy report came with the police report. in the autopsy report it stated Kevin had genital warts. Two weeks prior to the murder Pam had to go to Dr. she was supposed to call after. When she didn't call I called her.  I could tell something wasn't right, but she did not share with me what happened. Just that she was fine. I wished she could have shared with me everything that was happening. Just so she didn't have to be so alone in this.