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Pam's Obituary November 6, 2007

NOVEMBER 06, 2007: PAM'S OBITUARY
Pamela (Aukerman) Brainard
BRAINARD (AUKERMAN), PamelaOf Otsego Passed away Sunday, November 4, 2007. Pam was born July 2, 1974 in Kalamazoo, the daughter of David and Debra (Hayward) Aukerman and was raised in Mattawan. She had worked for Gentiva for several years as a Registered Nurse, in the Medicaid Programs such as the Mother-Infant Program, Home Health Care and finding resources for funds to help Mothers in difficult medical situations. She was preceded in death by her paternal grandparents, Willard and Barbara Aukerman. Pam is survived by her parents, Dave and Deb Aukerman of Mattawan; her children, Kyle Aukerman and Kayla Marie; her sister, Jennifer Drake; her brother, David (Peggy) Aukerman; her maternal grandparents, Robert and Shirley Hayward; several cousins, aunts, uncles, nieces and nephews, including a very special nephew, Chase.

Funeral services will be conducted at 11:00 AM Saturday in the Langeland Family Funeral Homes, Portage Chapel 411 E. Centre Ave. with Pastor John Vick and Pastor Mark Minger, officiating.

Interment will follow in Mt. Ever-Rest Memorial Park.

The family will receive friends at the funeral home on Friday from 2-4 and 6-8 PM.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be directed to a Y.W.C.A. Domestic Assault Program. 269-343-1508

http://obits.mlive.com/Kalamazoo/DeathNotices.asp?Page=LifeStory&PersonId=97491255

November 05, 2007 mlive plainwell puzzled

Plainwell puzzled by murder-suicide
Posted by mholland November 05, 2007 12:56PM
http://blog.mlive.com/grpress/2007/11/plainwell_puzzled_by_murdersui.html

OTSEGO -- Plainwell police officers today are struggling to understand what may have prompted a seven-year officer on the force to kill his wife and then shoot himself late Sunday.

"We are at a loss when it comes to that," said Plainwell Public Safety Director Bill Bomar.

"We don't know much about what his marital life was like."

After a relative called Otsego police, officers went to the home of Kevin and Pam Brainard, 707 Brookside Drive, and found Pam Brainard, 33, dead of gunshot wounds. Kevin Brainard also was in the house, critically wounded from an apparent self-inflicted gunshot wound.

He later died at Borgess-Pipp Hospital.Court records show the Brainards were married Sept. 16, 2006, in Plainwell and bought the Brookside Drive house in 2005.

Bomar described Kevin Brainard as a "very good officer" and said he was active in the community as an assistant soccer coach at Otsego High School."

Soccer and firefighting were his passions," Bomar said.The next-door neighbor of the Brainards said the couple has a 2-year-old daughter. The neighbor, Patricia Finnegan, did not know whether the daughter was home when the shootings occurred.

Finnegan said the Brainards seemed like a normal couple and had made many improvements to their house."They put a lot of work into the house. They put new windows in and added a sunroom," she said, describing them as "very nice."

She was not aware of any domestic problems in the family and wonders what might have prompted the shooting."Everybody is asking that, but nobody has answers," she said.

Meanwhile, the Plainwell Police Department has brought grief counselors to help other officers cope with the deaths.

November 5, 2007 mlive presumed murder/suicide

NOVEMBER 05, 2007: NEWSPAPER ARTICLE
Presumed murder-suicide involved Plainwell police officer
Posted by efinnert
November 05, 2007 11:55AM http://blog.mlive.com/kzgazette/2007/11/presumed_murdersuicide_involve.html

OTSEGO -- Autopsies were to be performed Monday on a Plainwell public-safety officer and his wife found shot in an apparent murder-suicide Sunday night.

A family member called police after discovering the bodies of Kevin and Pam Brainard in their home in the 700 block of Brookside Drive at 10 p.m., police said. It appeared that Kevin Brainard, 31, shot his wife, who was dead when police arrived, and then turned the gun on himself, according to the Otsego Police Department.

Kevin Brainard was pronounced dead a short time after reaching the Borgess-Pipp Hospital emergency room, said Otsego Police Chief Gordon Konkle.Konkle said Monday morning that it wasn't clear what led to the presumed murder-suicide.

"Obviously, it appears to be a domestic situation," he said. "We are trying to backtrack with friends and relatives."

Autopsies were to be performed Monday at Sparrow Hospital in Lansing.

Konkle said Kevin Brainard was with the Plainwell Department of Public Safety for about seven years and was a volunteer firefighter in Otsego for perhaps 10 years. He grew up in Otsego.

"It's a small town. He's well-known ... with his job in the fire department and Plainwell," Konkle said. "This was a shock and a tragedy."
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Novemeber 5, 2007 wood tv


Nov 5, 2007 08:10 PM CST
http://www.woodtv.com/global/story.asp?s=7311294&ClientType=Printable

By JOE LaFURGEYOTSEGO -- Jennifer Drake remembers the last calls from and to the home on Brookeside Drive in Otsego Sunday Night.

One, a voice mail message from her brother-in-law, Kevin Brainard, followed by a call she made."I told her, I said, 'Pam, you've got to get out of the house. He's calling, leaving us messages. He doesn't sound good,'" Drake told 24 Hour News 8. "'Get out of the house!'

"Within that same hour, Pam Brainard, a nurse and mother of two, was dead. Police believe Kevin Brainard, a Plainwell police officer and firefighter, shot his wife and then turned the gun on himself.

The couple's 2-year-old daughter was in the home, but not injured."I knew how bad things are getting for her, but I really thought she was going to get out of there," Drake said.

Drake said her sister had just told Brainard she was filing for divorce. The two had been married about a year. But it was a tough year for Pam, according to her sister."He played mind games with her," Drake said. "I mean, her phone would be filled with 100 calls a day by him. Her receipts were checked. I mean, every little thing of hers was under a microscope with him."

But Pam Brainard never contacted police. Her sister said she knew it could ruin his career, and she wasn't convinced she'd get anywhere with a complaint.

Drake said, "She didn't feel comfortable because of him being a police officer in that town."But Otsego's police chief said police officers are held to higher standards.

"I think there's a lot of pain now. There's a lot of pain. She's upset," said Chief Gordon Konkle.

"Hopefully she doesn't really believe that."Kevin Brainard's boss, Plainwell Director of Public Safety Bill Bomar, said Brainard was a good officer who received commendations for traffic enforcement including drunk driving.

Brainard, like other officers in the department, went through a psychiatric evaluation before being hired.

November 5, 2007 mlive klemmer

NOVEMBER 05, 2007: NEWSPAPER ARTICLE
Update: Abuse allegations in murder-suicide
Posted by llupo
November 05, 2007 22:33PM
http://blog.mlive.com/chronicle/2007/11/abuse_allegations_in_plainwell.html

OTSEGO -- A 31-year-old woman slain by her husband, a Plainwell police officer, told him she planned to leave him before he allegedly shot her and then himself in a murder-suicide, friends of the woman say."He tried to control everything she did," said Rich Klemmer, a friend of Pam Brainard. "When he thought he was going to lose her, he offed her."

Klemmer, who knew Brainard as a caring nurse who worked in Kalamazoo, left a bouquet of flowers on the Brainards' front porch this afternoon and briefly prayed.

Police believe Kevin Brainard, a seven-year officer with the Plainwell Public Safety Department and an Otsego firefighter, first shot his wife and then himself sometime Sunday night. She was discovered dead at their Brookside Drive home, while Kevin Brainard died later at the hospital.

The couple's 2-year-old daughter, Kayla, was in the home during the shootings but was not harmed.

Family and friends of Pam Brainard said she was in an emotionally abusive relationship, but was hesitant to go to police because her husband was an officer.

But Otsego Police Chief Gordon Konkle said police would have taken any complaint seriously."Nothing was ever reported," he said. "(Domestic violence) is just not tolerated any more. We would not cover it up."

November 6, 2007 911 call

NOVEMBER 06, 2007: NEWSPAPER ARTICLE
Urgency in officer murder-suicide 911 call
http://www.woodtv.com/global/story.asp?s=7320714&ClientType=Printable
Posted: Nov 6, 2007 03:43 PM CST
Updated: Nov 7, 2007 08:20 AM CST
By PATRICK CENTEROTSEGO -- The 911 call from a family member who discovered the bodies of Kevin Brainard and his wife, Pam, in their home Sunday night were released to the public.Police are still trying to piece together what prompted the officer to kill his wife then himself.Kevin father, Roger Brainard, went to the house after Kevin apparently called his mother. In the call, Roger Brainard, is heard telling dispatchers what he saw:
--Roger Brainard: "Kevin Brainard.
--"Dispatcher: "Okay."
-- Roger Brainard: "All right.
--"Dispatcher: "The Officer Brainard?"
-- Roger Brainard: "Yes, Sir. It's him. Correct. Could you get the (deleted) over here."
--Dispatcher: "Sir, listen to me. We've got (inaudible) on the way already."
-- Roger Brainard: "Ah, man. I appreciate the (deleted) out of that."
--Dispatcher: "OK."
-- Roger Brainard: "It doesn't look like they're breathing. So, I'm shaking like a son-of-a-bitch."
--Dispatcher: "Who found him?"
-- Roger Brainard: "I did, sir. I found him and his wife."
--Dispatcher: "Where is his wife?"
-- Roger Brainard: "Upstairs with him God ---- it, we need."
--Dispatcher: (Inaudible)
-- Roger Brainard: "She's laying there. It looks like she's dead."

Both Pam and Kevin Brainard were dead.

Jennifer Drake, Pam's sister, said Pam was concerned for her safety when she decided to leave Kevin Brainard. But she didn't think police would take her concerns seriously."

She knew once she made a report on him that he would lose, he could lose his job," Drake told 24 Hour News 8. "His whole career could be over with."

But Chief Bill Bomar said if a report had been filed, his department would follow the law and investigate. If the claim was substantiated, the case would be turned over to another jurisdiction, in most cases the Michigan State Police.

If an officer is found guilty, the department could suspend him and require counseling, plus whatever the court ruled.

A police psychologist told 24 Hour News 8 that under Title 18, an officer found guilty of domestic violence must turn over their sidearm.

In other words, no gun, no job.

November 6, 2007 wwmt Bomar

NOVEMBER 06, 2007: NEWSPAPER ARTICLE
Ex-husband tells of warning in murder-suicide
http://www.wwmt.com/news/police_1344621___article.html/pam_straub.html
November 6, 2007 - 5:23PM
OTSEGO (NEWSCHANNEL 3)

Sunday night Pam Brainard was shot to death in her Otsego home. It appears her husband Kevin, a Plainwell Public Safety officer, shot her and then turned the gun on himself.

Tuesday we have new information about the final days of Pam Brainard's life.

"She called me on her cell phone," said Ed Straub. It was only the second time Straub had heard from his ex-wife since their divorce. "I was a little bit surprised." That surprise quickly turned to fear. In a voicemail Pam said she was leaving her current husband, Kevin Brainard.

"I called her back and stated she shouldn't be calling me, she should fear for her life because he's going to find out about that phone call," said Straub.

Then last Friday Ed was so scared for his safety and Pam's, he decided to tell police in Plainwell.

He met with the chief before Kevin arrived for his night shift. "The Chief of Police stated he wouldn't want anyone on his force that could act like this and he was going to check into it with what he could," said Straub. But Ed didn't have formal evidence of a threat or a police report. He knew the police didn't have much to go on.

Then Sunday night the 911 calls started coming in. It was already too late.

Those deaths stunned Kevin Brainard's boss. The Police Chief told us he had no idea this was possible.

"We're all in that, wondering what happened, what we missed, where could we help," said Chief Bill Bomar.

Tuesday we asked him about that meeting with Pam's ex-husband. He told us off-camera it was a private conversation, not a police report.

Even Ed Straub seemed to know he'd have trouble getting anyone to believe him. "You got an ex-husband coming and blaming a police officer for these type of things and accusing him and saying he's going to do this kind of thing, me coming in off the street, that's a tough thing to believe," said Straub.

Otsego Police should know more about the exact sequence of events inside the home in the next few days. That's when they'll get autopsy results for Kevin and Pam.

NOVEMBER 07, 2007: Allegan news

NOVEMBER 07, 2007: NEWSPAPER ARTICLE
Plainwell officer kills wife, self
By Daniel PepperStaff Writer
Wednesday, November 7, 2007 5:02 PM EST
http://www.allegannews.com/articles/2007/11/09/ue_news/1.txt

Police suspect a Plainwell Public Safety officer shot his wife and then himself late Sunday, Nov. 4.

The bodies of Kevin and Pam Brainard were found inside the couple’s home by Otsego police and Allegan County sheriff deputies about 10 p.m. Sunday after a family member called 9-1-1. Kevin Brainard was taken to Borgess Pipp Health Center, but was pronounced dead there.

Police said he and his wife both had gun shot wounds to the head.Brainard had been a public safety officer in Plainwell for about seven years and a volunteer fireman in Otsego for about 12 years.

Otsego police Chief Gordon Konkle said the case was shocking.“No one that I know of had any idea this was coming,” Konkle said. “It was out of the blue. We’d never been there on a domestic abuse call, or anything that I am aware of and I think I’d be aware of it if it had happened.”

No other indications of impending violence had been seen, as far as police know, he said.“You never know what is going on in somebody’s house,” Konkle said. “People are private, sometimes, and never air their dirty laundry in public. But this is the epidemic that’s running through everywhere, as far as domestic assault. This was a domestic assault that escalated. It’s unfortunate it came to this and that they didn’t get help.”

Konkle said that investigation suggested the couple were having marital problems.

The crime was the first murder Otsego police could remember taking place in the city in anyone’s memory, Konkle said.“This was a shock to us, both of the families are good people and our condolences go out to them,” he said.

Plainwell Director of Public Safety Bill Bomar said that Brainard had been an exemplary officer.“He was one of our hardest working officers,” Bomar said. “An officer who absolutely loved his job.”

Bomar said his department had sat down with a grief counselor.“Our deposition counsel said last night that you can’t see that stuff, these people hide that stuff,” he said.

His department never received an indication anything like this was coming, Bomar said.“He was a good employee, we never had any issues,” he said. “I wish everyone had worked as hard as he did.”

Konkle said Pam Brainard wasn’t an Otsego native like her husband and that she worked as a nurse.

He said Kevin Brainard was known in Otsego and Plainwell for volunteering. He ran a mock drunk driving accident at Plainwell High School several years ago, meant to illustrate the perils of drunk driving. He’d been an assistant soccer coach and worked on charitable programs for the fire department.

“I’ve know him since I’ve been here and longer, since he went through the police academy in Kalamazoo that I taught at,” he said. “It seems like he shouldn’t be known just as a murderer when he did all the volunteering and things, but that’s what happened.”

Otsego police are awaiting autopsy results.

The regular meeting of the Otsego City Commission began Monday, Nov. 5, with a moment of silence for the families.

“They both served the community for a number of years,” said Otsego Mayor Joel Thompson. “It’s a horrific and tragic loss.”

The commission asked for prayers to the families.

Intern Elizabeth LaDuke contributed to this story.

Dan Pepper can be reached at dpepper@allegannews.com or at (269) 673-5534 or (269) 685-5985.

NOVEMBER 16, 2007: Allegan news

NOVEMBER 16, 2007: NEWSPAPER ARTICLE
Murder victim ‘loved to teach’
November 16, 2007, 10:48 AM EST
By Daniel Pepper, Staff Writer
Allegan News
http://www.allegannews.com/articles/2007/11/16/local_news/1.prt

Co-workers remember Pam Brainard as being perfectly suited to be a nurse.

“Her job was perfect for her because she was everything a nurse should be,” said Jennifer Dentler, who worked with her at Allegan General Hospital.

Brainard was found murdered Nov. 4, according to police, by her husband, Kevin, a Plainwell Public Safety Officer, at the couple’s home in Otsego.

Co-workers from the hospital remembered her working to bring new people into the world at the hospital’s birth center. She’d worked at the birth center about a year, while previously working in home health care.

Dentler, a fellow nurse, said Brainard’s best skill was working with patients.

“She loved to teach, she was really great with the moms and babies with getting out parenting info or anything they needed,” Dentler said.

She knew how to ask the right questions of patients, Dentler said, to get the answers nurses needed.

“She was great at just counseling and helping the moms and babies, beyond just providing care,” she said.

Brainard took it upon herself to become certified in putting in car seats and would go out to the car with mothers and babies leaving the birth center to make sure their car seats were put in correctly.That was just one example, Dentler said, of her going above and beyond.

“Always after somebody delivered, she’d call and check back in even when she wasn’t working to check on them,” she said. “She’d go above and beyond. When she was off-duty she’d call and check on her patients.”

The nurses at the birth center work 12-hour shifts, but Brainard was always busy.

“She was always, always, always working,” Dentler said. “She was never one to just sit back and read when we were down, she’d always have something we were doing.”

She was survived by her two children, Kyle, 14, and Kayla Marie, 2.

“She talked a lot about her children,” Dentler said. “That’s what we talked about a lot.”

That seemed very in line with her personality at work, Dentler said.“Pam just exuded a very motherly nature about her. She was very much a caretaker. She was very intuitive with the patients and with us. She’d see if you were sick or sad and she’d want to take care of you.”

Brainard was born July 2, 1974, Kalamazoo to David and Debra Aukerman. She grew up in Mattawan and was buried Saturday, Nov. 10, in Kalamazoo.

According to their funeral home’s Web site, the family has asked that in lieu of flowers donations be made to the Y.W.C.A. Domestic Assault Program.

Dentler said she’d be missed.“Deeply, deeply missed,” she said. “It’s a very hard thing to understand, but she’ll just be missed.”

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