MY DEAR MISS KIM BRAINARD-WHEELER

How dare you contact me and demand that I remove Kyle's signature from the petition for his mother's Officer-Involved Domestic Violence Law.

Kyle's mother was murdered by your brother. If you want to talk about laws and rights, where were they for Kyle on the night your brother brutally his mother?

Your brother denied Kyle's mother the right to live. And now you want to deny Kyle the right to sign his name on a petition for a law in honor of his mother, that will protect other victims, because he's not 18 years old?

If you want to address laws, Miss Kim, why don't you address the laws that your brother violated when he abused Pam...and the ultimate law he violated when he murdered Pam?

The fact that your signature and the signatures of anyone in your family are not on Pam's law, says a lot Kim. It demonstrates how much in denial you are about your brother's murder of Pam and how defensive you are in defending your brother and his murderous action.

And if you are in denial about your brother's murder of Pam, then it goes hand in hand that you are in denial of the amount of pain Kyle is in...and the strength, determination, and true grit it has taken for that child to get through each and every painful day, that his mother has laid buried under six feet of dirt.

Oh no Kim, you want to hurt that child even further, and tell him his name has to come off his mother's petition, because you say so.

Why Kim? Why do you want to hurt Kyle even more? Don't you think Kyle is hurt enough? Why must you continue to badger him?

Why is Pam's murder a war with you and your family? Why are you filled with such hatred for Kyle? Where is your respect for Kyle, and the rest of Pam's family?

And please Kim, don't tell me that you are being hateful and hurtful towards Kyle, in an effort to protect your brother's name, or because you claim you suffered a loss greater than Kyle. That doesn't hold water, because in all honesty, there is no rational explanation for your cruel and hateful actions against Kyle, since his mother was murdered.

Normal people Kim, do not display such hatred and disrespect to a child and a family who have lost someone...especially to murderer/ at the hands of another person. Usually Kim, people in your situation, if they can't embrace the victim's family, just step aside out of respect and zip their mouths. Out of respect, Kim, people in your position don't climb up on a soap box and scream to the world how much of a hero the murderer was, and chew the victim and the victim's family to shreds, to deliberatly cause more pain. They just don't, Kim.

I manage the MIOIDV website, Kim, and I never get hateful comments or hateful posts from abuser's/murderer's families defending their abusing/murdering relative's actions. For that matter, Kim, I don't ever receive hateful emails/posts from my abuser's family and friends...even though numerous Monroe County residents visit the MIOIDV on a daily basis.

What does that tell you Kim? Go over to the MIOIDV website and look at the large number of OIDV cases I have posted over there...and there is not one angry, revengeful, hate filled comment posted by the perp's family.

So tell me Kim, how in the hell do you rationalize to yourself and to others the pain you have intentionally inflicted upon Kyle? And most importantly Kim, if you hate Kyle so much, why don't you just go away...just leave him alone? What sick pleasure do you derive from attacking Kyle? What sick void does it fill for you, to viciously attack Kyle?

Renee' Harrington